Culture Shock South Korea

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We stepped out of the airport into South Korea and it was complete culture shock. We quickly realized just how unique Japanese culture is, how the small details and rules keep Japanese culture sacred. We already started to miss our lives in Japan.

Suddenly, in South Korea, people were wearing diverse colorful outfits and there was a more relaxed feeling in the air. There was a Western familiarity. The highways were similar to American highways, the cars were bigger and we even saw a few Jeeps on the road. People spoke at a normal volume and laughed out loud. There was a feeling that came over us.. maybe a feeling of less pressure? In Japan we felt a lot of pressure to follow rules, to make sure we were respectful at all times, whether it be by being quiet on the trains to wearing more conservative clothing. None of that mattered anymore, I could wear my shorts freely without feeling of guilt. There was also a feeling of awe. The awe came from the fact that we really don’t realize where we had been until we left. Japan has one of the most unique cultures we’ve witnessed and while we were living it we forgot the rest of the world.

We treated ourselves to a taxi since the time left of our trip was winding down. As we drove, I couldn’t help but think the most exciting thing about travel is that other world feeling right when you arrive. Things were strange but familiar. I noticed the trees again, it was not as lush as Japan and there were beachy pine trees. Coloring the world in.

Soon our senses were overloaded. We forgot about the gross smells of most cities and volume of speaking was louder. People laughing and expressing themselves more freely came with too loud volumes, less rules came with more garbage and stinky smells on the streets. Normal, but not in Japan.

Culture shock in South Korea was a good way to ease us into reverse culture shock in the US. We went out into the streets of Seoul feeling a bit lighter, though missing the quirks and specifics of Japan and it’s unique, untouched culture.

Chrysanthemum in Course 2

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“Chrys-tham-them-mum… Chrystham-them-mum.. Chrystham-themum!” We were on the first course of our 9 course Japanese dinner (what were we thinking, seriously??) and our server, a cute, little Japanese woman dressed beautifully in a kimono, was explaining an ingredient on the menu, chrysanthemum. We taught her how to say the English word, and she repeated it over and over. As she slide out of the room (literally slid, bowing coming in and out of the sliding doors to our room) we could hear her walking down the hallway to fetch the next course saying “Chrys-tham-them-mum… Chrystham-them-mum.. Chrystham-themum!”

I was completely filled to the brim after course 4, but we pushed onward. After two hours, we were both ready to stand up off the floors, stretch our legs, and go to bed. Chad and I are eating meat on this trip ‘traveltarians’ or ‘flexitarians’ (though we’re mostly sticking with fish) and this was a meat heavy meal so we were both feeling it. I think I’m getting enough meat for the rest of my life and I’m really missing vegetables. I’ll be happy to be going back to vegetarian once we’re back.

Gora, Hakone was so incredibly relaxing after Tokyo. It rained the entire time we were there, which was really nice because it kept the air cool and we went in the hot springs for most of the night and early morning. We also swam in the pool, which as filled with dragonflies. We read books and relaxed before we fell asleep on our futons.

Treat Yo'Self

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“I like this one because it reminds me of the Hamburgerlar.” We’re inside a Picasso exhibit on the side of a mountain in Hakone, Japan and Chad is explaining to me why he likes a specific Picasso portrait. I start laughing, a bit too loudly, and we continue out into the Open Air Art Museum that sits next to our hotel on the side of a mountain.

We’re in Hakone, in the mountains close to Mount Fuji (which we could almost see from the train but weather is cloudy). We’ve made the mistake of spending far too much money on a ryoken that has a private onsen in the room but the deed has been done and we’re going to enjoy ourselves whether we like it or not. We’re here for the night, which will be nice because we need some relaxation after our Tokyo adventure. We are preparing to eat a nine course meal for dinner served in our room and then enjoy the hot springs. What can I say, we really splurged… (I’m looking for freelance work if anyone is hiring!! haha)

We ate a small lunch at a place called Woody’s, a tiny restaurant dedicated to Toy Story. The town we are in, Gora, is a really quiet town with just a few streets so after lunch, we stumbled upon a brewery and had to try a beer. It was delicious and a perfect way to spend our afternoon before our onsen experience. We’re in Hakone for one night of pure bliss and then onwards to Kyoto.